Jordan Peterson: Nietzsche, Hitler, God, Psychopathy, Suffering & Meaning | Lex Fridman Podcast
12 Oct 2024 (1 month ago)
Introduction (0s)
- This conversation is with Jordan Peterson, who is appearing on the podcast for the second time. (0s)
- The podcast is hosted by Lex Fridman. (1s)
- Jordan Peterson has given a set of lectures. (7s)
Nietzsche (8s)
- The influence of Friedrich Nietzsche on writing style is significant, with his intellectually dense and aphoristic writings being a benchmark to strive for, particularly in terms of conciseness and emotional resonance (10s).
- Nietzsche's writing style is characterized by being exciting, dynamic, and romantic, making his works, such as "Beyond Good and Evil," a pleasure to analyze and deconstruct (42s).
- A deep respect for the writer is necessary to approach their work with the seriousness it deserves, and this respect is what sets great writers apart, with Nietzsche being the ultimate exemplar of this (1m49s).
- Great writers, including Nietzsche, have the ability to make virtually every sentence they write worth attending to, with their works being endlessly analyzable and evocative (2m6s).
- In contrast to many modern books, which often lack original ideas, Nietzsche's works are remarkable for their ability to present new and thought-provoking concepts at the sentence level (2m41s).
- Other thinkers, such as Romanian historian of religion Mircea Eliade, also possess thought of equivalent value, and their works can serve as an antidote to postmodern nihilistic and Marxist interpretations (2m57s).
- Eliade's writing style is also notable for its density and ability to evoke complex images, making his works, such as "The Sacred and the Profane," endlessly analyzable and worthy of study (3m18s).
- The ability to create writing that is both literary and technical is a hallmark of great writers, with literary writings often possessing an imagistic and dreamlike quality that takes time to develop and appreciate (4m0s).
- Deep imagery has a depth that cannot be captured merely in words, and great romantic poetic philosophers like Nietzsche, Dostoevsky, and Merleau-Ponty have a quality that allows them to convey this depth through their writing (4m20s).
- The book "The User Illusion" is considered one of the best books on consciousness, as it explains how our communication is understandable and how words can evoke images that can be translated into actions (4m41s).
- The greatest writing uses words in a manner that evokes images that profoundly affect perception and action, and this is what happens in a meaningful conversation (5m19s).
- Perception is not a value-free enterprise, and it is not passive; rather, it is action-predicated, and our aims and goals influence what we choose to perceive (6m22s).
- When communicating, we are not only changing people's actions but also changing the strategy they use to perceive, which can change the way the world reveals itself to them (7m18s).
- Reading a particularly deep thinker can be a profound experience, as it can change the way we perceive the world, which is deeper than just changing how we think or feel about it (7m24s).
- Perceptions can be thought of as the axioms of our thought, and a really profound thinker can change the way we perceive the world, which is a more fundamental change than just changing our thoughts or feelings (7m28s).
Power and propaganda (7m49s)
- Profound thinkers can deliver powerful ideas that saturate people's perception with values, focusing them on a certain set of actions and emotions, as seen in the utopian ideas of Marx or the dystopian ideas of Hitler (7m50s).
- These powerful ideas can completely alter perception and bring to life a form of possession, where there's a unification of all possible goals into a coherent singularity (8m23s).
- This unification can have advantages, such as simplicity and motivation, but it can be disastrous if the unifying idea is invalid (8m55s).
- Postmodernists, especially those with a Neo-Marxist bent, presume that the fundamental unifying idea is power, which is a terrible and potentially pathological idea (9m39s).
- This idea justifies the use of power and compulsion, and is in contrast to the will to power concept of Friedrich Nietzsche, which emphasizes the creative force and flourishing of a human being (10m29s).
- Nietzsche's will to power is not about destroying others, but rather about the upward-oriented motivational drive towards meaning and the full flourishing of a human being (10m50s).
- In contrast to power and compulsion, a unifying force based on voluntary joint agreement and cooperation towards a goal is a more effective and desirable strategy, and is more in line with the ethos of free Western societies (12m23s).
- This distinction between power-based and voluntary unifying forces is not a morally relativistic illusion, but rather a qualitative difference that is essential to understand (12m48s).
- Nietzsche's idea of the "Übermensch" (or "Overman") is often misinterpreted as a concept of power, but it was misrepresented by Hitler to advocate for the extermination of "inferior" non-Aryan races and the dominance of "superior" Aryans (13m13s).
- Nietzsche's announcement of the "death of God" was accompanied by warnings of dire consequences, as the unifying ethos that had organized people psychologically and socially was being fatally undermined by rationalism and empiricism (14m1s).
- The human psyche and societies have a proclivity to move towards unity, as disunity leads to goal confusion, anxiety, and hopelessness, and the cost of disunity is high (14m28s).
- If the unifying force of a society is killed, such as the "death of God," people may either fractionate and experience confusion, anxiety, and hopelessness, or a new unifying force may arise, such as communism, which Nietzsche believed would kill tens of millions of people in the 20th century (15m12s).
- Nietzsche's idea that humans must create their own values after the "death of God" is problematic, as people are often a "fractionated plurality" internally and may not be able to rely on themselves as the source of values (16m52s).
- The psychoanalysts, including Freud, observed that people are often not the master of their own house, with competing motivations and desires, making it difficult to create one's own values (16m58s).
- The idea that people can construct an ethos that is psychologically and socially stabilizing and lasting is hubristic, as seen in the examples of Marx and the postmodernists (17m45s).
- Religion, communism, and Nazism are unifying ideas that also have the potential to be horribly dividing, as they can be used to start wars, hatred, and division among people (17m56s).
- The Pharisees, scribes, and lawyers in the gospels are portrayed as the fundamental enemies of Christ, representing religious hypocrisy, intellectual worship, and the use of law as a weapon (18m32s).
- The best possible ideas can be used by the worst actors for the worst possible ends, creating an existential conundrum of how to separate genuine religious people from those who use religion for their own machinations (19m10s).
- The weaponization of certain forms of Christian ideology is happening online, particularly on the right-wing troll side, marked by cliches like "Christ is King" with a completely different meaning in this context (19m43s).
- It is challenging to distinguish truly beneficial unifying ideas from those that are pathological, and there is a need to develop a reliable and valid way to make this distinction (20m18s).
- The problem of distinguishing good actors from bad actors and good ideas from bad ideas is a complex one, as seen in the example of communism, where it is difficult to determine whether the idea itself is bad or if it has been implemented poorly by bad actors (20m40s).
- The argument that "real communism has never been tried" is a common one, but the fact that communism has been implemented in various cultures and backgrounds with consistently catastrophic consequences suggests that the idea itself may be flawed (21m0s).
- The idea that a utopia would come about if the right person was in charge of the communist enterprise is a form of dangerous pretense, as it ignores the historical evidence of communism's failures (21m45s).
- The concept of sacrifice is a developing notion in the Western canon, spanning thousands of years, and is exemplified in the passion story, where the valid holder of an idea takes responsibility for its consequences onto themselves (21m59s).
- The ultimate sacrifice can be conceptualized as either the sacrifice of a child or the offering of the self, with the story of Christ bringing both together as the son of God offered to God (22m37s).
- Christ is an archetype of the pattern of being predicated on the decision to offer everything up to the highest value, and this pattern of self-sacrifice is valid because the person undertaking it pays the price themselves (23m16s).
- The battle between good and evil is fundamentally played out as an internal drama in high-order religious conceptualizations in the West, particularly in the Christian story (24m25s).
- The battle between good and evil is fought within each individual human heart, and it is one's moral duty to constrain evil within themselves, making them a more effective warrior against evil in the social world (24m41s).
- The idea is that if the battle within is undertaken successfully, it doesn't have to be played out in the social world as actual conflict, allowing for the rectification of conflict internally (25m11s).
- Nietzsche's critique of Christianity as "slave morality" versus "master morality" can be seen in the context of the woke phenomenon, which is a manifestation of the slave morality he criticized, but it is argued that he was wrong in his critique (25m30s).
- Nietzsche's criticism of Christianity is complex, as he never directly criticizes the gospel stories, but rather the pathologies of institutionalized religion, particularly the Protestant form, which has degenerated into the notion that good and harmless are the same thing (26m6s).
- Nietzsche's idea that human beings should construct their own values is considered a colossal error, as it disregards the idea of an implicit moral order that exists and should be abided by (27m4s).
- The story of Adam and Eve in the Garden of Eden illustrates the balance between order and nature, where human beings have the freedom to do anything they want, except for messing with the most fundamental rule, which represents the implicit moral order (27m22s).
- There is an ethos implicit in being itself, and one's ethos must reflect that and be in harmony with the actual structure of reality, which cannot be gerrymandered or controlled (28m8s).
- The goal of conducting oneself properly is to have conversations that allow for expression, learning, and growth, which requires matching oneself to a pattern of interaction that is marked emotionally (28m31s).
- The religious interpretation of this is that one is making the Redemptive logos manifest in dialogue, which requires alignment with a pattern that cannot be arbitrarily imposed (29m12s).
- The constraints on one's ethos reflect the actual structure of the world, and attempting to impose a certain mode or priority aim on communication is a form of manipulation, similar to the Communist presumption of burning everything down and starting from scratch (29m45s).
- Axiomatic presumptions are used to shape people's thoughts and behaviors, as seen in communism and transhumanism, but there is a pattern of being that people must align with to find hope, protection from anxiety, and harmony with their surroundings (30m0s).
- People come to conversations with a hierarchy of foundational axioms, and the more sophisticated the thinker, the deeper the level at which they are willing to engage (30m55s).
- The hierarchy of axioms has a certain degree of structure, allowing for understanding and communication, but also has a space for play and flexibility (31m31s).
- The rigidity of the hierarchy of axioms provided by religion is not absolute, as it allows for play and dynamism within its constraints (31m50s).
- Play, such as in games like chess or basketball, has rigid rules, but within those rules, there is a vast space for freedom and creativity (32m6s).
- Adhering to the rules of a game or a conversation can actually increase the realm of freedom, rather than decreasing it (32m48s).
- A playful conversation, like the one in the Exodus seminar, can be conducted with implicit rules, where participants engage in a genuine and respectful exchange of ideas (33m7s).
- Engaging conversations have a flow that allows for the exchange of ideas, extension of thoughts, and identification of flaws, making them more likely to be listened to by others (33m34s).
- A sense of engaged meaning is a marker for the emergence of harmony between an individual and their environment (33m52s).
- This harmony is developmentally rich, moving the individual upward towards a more effective entropic state, which can be described as a state that makes the individual more than they currently are (34m4s).
- The directionality of this state implies a progression or growth towards a more effective state (34m17s).
- The discussion revolves around understanding the characteristics of communism versus religion from an engineering perspective, and identifying why communist or Marxist thought may not lead to a better human being or society, despite having a utopian sense of where everybody is headed (34m19s).
- The 19th century produced powerful ideas, including Marxism, fascism, and communism, which can be convincing, especially to those feeling unhappy about themselves (35m17s).
- Some foundational axioms of communism, socialism, or communism may be functional in a sufficiently small social group, such as a family or small tribal group, but may not apply to larger societies (35m47s).
- The attractiveness of radical left ideas may be due to their functionality within small groups, but different principles must apply as societies become larger and more complex (36m5s).
- A fundamental problem with communism is the notion that complex social interactions can be simplified for centralized planning authorities, which is computationally impossible (36m42s).
- A distributed network of cognition is needed to compute the proper way forward in a large civilization, allowing individual actors to make choices and the aggregate direction to emerge (37m5s).
- The free market answer to complex problems, such as pricing decisions, is to allow the market to determine the correct price, rather than relying on a central authority (38m7s).
- Ideas like communism may fail because they don't scale or iterate, similar to how the Earth appears flat when looking outside, but it's not when looking beyond the horizon (38m13s).
- Religious thought is a record of ideas that have scaled and iterated, and it has a fundamental conservative aspect due to tradition (38m45s).
- Mircea Eliade, Joseph Campbell, and Carl Jung analyzed ideals and ideas that scaled and iterated across large spans of time, looking at patterns of narrative common across religious traditions (39m8s).
- These patterns, such as the hero myth, have been found to be common across multiple religious traditions, unite people psychologically, and reflect the underlying neurophysiological architecture (39m37s).
- The hero myth is an example of a foundational narrative that lasts and works psychologically, and its reflection in human neurophysiology and neuro psychology is considered to be incontrovertible evidence (39m41s).
- A hero myth is actually a quest myth, which is a story of exploration and expansion of adaptation, as seen in Bilbo's journey in "The Hobbit" where he expands his personality and develops his wisdom in response to the quest call (40m5s).
- The quest myth is reflected in human neuropsychological architecture at a very low level, below cognition, and is associated with the hypothalamus, a fundamental element of the mammalian brain that governs primary motivation, including lust, breathing, hunger, thirst, and temperature (40m30s).
- The hypothalamus is also the origin of the dopaminergic tracts, which subsume exploration, and can be thought of as governing a domain of axiomatic motivational states, including love, sex, defensive aggression, and hunger (41m4s).
- Another domain is governed by exploration, with the rule being that when basic motivational states are sated, one should explore, which is not a cognitive process but rather a deep brain architecture that is ancient and shared across many animal species (41m20s).
- The exploration story is about going out into the unknown, taking risks, and discovering information and developing skills that will be worthwhile even in satisfying basic motivational drives (41m41s).
- This process should be done in an iterative manner, sustaining across time, and uniting individuals with others, which is a pattern that is often encapsulated in deep religious narratives (41m55s).
- The pattern of exploration and adaptation is a fundamental aspect of human nature, and is reflected in many stories and myths, including the hero myth (42m3s).
- The story of Abraham is a significant biblical narrative that explores the concept of individual development and the human search for meaning, which is also related to the idea of what makes communism wrong (42m28s).
- According to the story, Abraham, who is considered the first true individual in the biblical narrative, is called by God to leave his comfort zone and embark on an adventure, which is a metaphor for the human desire for something more than just comfort and security (44m18s).
- The concept of God in the story of Abraham is characterized as the Call to Adventure, which represents the idea that humans are not built for comfort and security, but rather for exploration and self-discovery (44m0s).
- The story highlights the human proclivity to curse and complain, as noted by the writer Dov, who suggests that humans would purposefully go insane or create problems in a comfortable environment just to break the monotony (43m23s).
- The Covenant between God and Abraham is a central theme in the story, where God promises that if Abraham follows the voice of Adventure, he will become a blessing to himself, establish something of lasting value, and be regarded as of utility and worth by others (45m5s).
- The story of Abraham serves as an archetypal example of the developing individual, who is driven by a desire for meaning and purpose beyond mere comfort and security (43m55s).
- The idea of believing in God is closely tied to the concept of the Call to Adventure, which represents the human desire for something more than just comfort and security (42m18s).
- The story of Abraham is also related to the idea that humans are not infants, but rather individuals who are driven by a desire for exploration, self-discovery, and the creation of something of lasting value (43m42s).
- The concept of Divinity in the Abrahamic story emphasizes the importance of attending to one's drive for adventure and making sacrifices to follow that path, which can lead to a life of blessing, high esteem, and establishing something of permanent value in a way that benefits everyone else (46m13s).
- This idea is biologically and psychologically beneficial, as it allows for psychological stability, movement upward in a social hierarchy, and the establishment of something iterable that allows others to partake in the same process (46m44s).
- The alternative hypothesis, which suggests that the spirit of adventure is antithetical to one's own esteem or others' best interests, is considered flawed (47m11s).
- The concept of God can be seen as a call to adventure with constraints, a call to true adventure that is not fully fleshed out until the Christian perspective, particularly in the Gospels (47m32s).
- The passion of Christ is considered the truest adventure of Abraham, a catastrophic tragedy with redemptive elements, implying that there is no distinction between the true adventure of life and taking on the pathway of maximal responsibility and burden (48m4s).
- The maximally worthwhile adventure is highly correlated with the hardest possible available adventure, which is voluntarily undertaken, and this idea is exemplified in Christ's decision to undertake his crucifixion despite his apprehension (48m55s).
- The relationship with death is a problem that must be solved, and one's approach to it can be either to fight it and be bitter or to undertake it as an adventure (49m48s).
- The idea of welcoming struggle and hardship in life is a concept that is difficult to put into words, but it is a necessary part of coming to terms with life and finding meaning (49m55s).
- This concept is symbolized in the crucifixion, which represents the worst possible death, but also goes beyond that to represent the confrontation with the root of malevolence itself (50m44s).
- The crucifixion is not just a symbol of tragedy, but also of the need to confront and overcome evil, which is a more difficult and damaging experience than mere suffering (51m27s).
- The literature on post-traumatic stress disorder shows that it is not just suffering that can fragment people, but encounters with malevolence, whether it be their own dark impulses or the actions of bad actors in the world (51m30s).
- Soldiers who experience the thrill of mayhem in battle can be forever changed by the discovery of their own dark impulses, and may never recover from the knowledge of what they are capable of (51m52s).
- Similarly, naive people who encounter narcissistic psychopaths can be in mortal trouble, not just physically, but also psychologically, as they may be forever changed by the experience (52m15s).
- The idea of welcoming struggle and hardship is not limited to a certain level of difficulty, but rather requires a willingness to confront and overcome whatever challenges come one's way, no matter how hard they may be (50m29s).
- This concept is exemplified in the mythological idea of Christ's Harrowing of Hell, which represents the confrontation with the root of malevolence and the need to overcome it in order to find meaning and purpose in life (51m2s).
Advice for young people (52m25s)
- A person's destiny can be thought of as a calling that announces itself through their interests and values, which can be distinguished from the idea of creating one's own values, as some things naturally capture one's interest and others do not (52m58s).
- This calling can be described as an autonomous spirit that illuminates certain things in one's field of perception, making them seem interesting and compelling, and can be accompanied by a sense of awe and anxiety (53m37s).
- Rudolph Otto described this experience as "numinous," where something grips and compels a person, often accompanied by a sense of anxiety or fear (53m50s).
- The voice of positive emotion and enthusiasm can draw a person into the world, driven by love, aesthetic interest, friendship, social status, duty, or industriousness (54m11s).
- In contrast, God as conscience can be thought of as a voice that marks deviations from one's path with shame, guilt, anxiety, regret, and other negative emotions (55m11s).
- The Divine in the Old Testament is portrayed as a dynamic between calling and conscience, guiding a person forward while also constraining them with moral obligations (55m40s).
- Negative emotions like envy, fear, pride, and others can pull a person into bad places, and are considered among the worst sins, as seen in the story of Cain and Abel (55m50s).
- The story of Cain and Abel illustrates the importance of offering one's best and being accepted, and the dangers of bitterness and unhappiness that can result from rejection (56m9s).
- When people fail, they often invite the spirit of envy and resentment, which can lead to misery, as seen in the biblical story of Cain and Abel (56m25s).
- Practicing gratitude is a way to fortify oneself against the pathway of resentment, and it can be done by literally practicing gratitude (56m56s).
- Envy is a major enemy for young people, as they often compare themselves to others who seem to be succeeding, which can lead to feelings of inadequacy and resentment (57m1s).
- Focusing on gratitude can help shift one's perspective, recognizing that everyone has their own struggles and challenges, regardless of age or wealth (57m34s).
- One of the best predictors of wealth in the United States is age, but this does not necessarily mean that older, wealthier individuals have an advantage over younger, poorer ones (57m44s).
- Discriminating between a challenge and an opportunity is difficult, but learning to see challenges as opportunities is a key part of wisdom (58m27s).
- Celebrating others' successes, rather than ignoring or being envious of them, can transform one's perspective and help to overcome envy (58m44s).
- Recognizing that someone else's success means that it is possible for oneself to achieve similar success can help to overcome envy and identify one's own desires and motivations (59m9s).
- Identifying the root of one's envy can help to reveal one's true motivations and desires, and can provide an opportunity for personal growth and self-improvement (59m23s).
- Having faith in oneself and in the potentiality of the world can help to overcome feelings of inadequacy and resentment (59m54s).
- Comparing oneself to who one is, rather than to someone else, can help to cultivate a more positive and growth-oriented mindset (1h0m14s).
- The benchmark for self-improvement is comparing oneself to their current state, rather than others, and making incremental improvements, which can lead to exponential or geometric returns (1h0m18s).
- The idea that great things can emerge from humble beginnings is a common theme in mythology, such as the story of Christ, who was born in a manger to poverty-stricken parents (1h0m50s).
- Everyone struggles with feelings of insufficiency, but having faith in oneself and the spirit of reality is essential for overcoming these feelings and achieving great things (1h1m10s).
- The biblical text emphasizes the importance of having courage and faith in oneself, regardless of the evidence at hand, and looking beyond one's current circumstances (1h1m21s).
- The story of Job, who suffered greatly but refused to lose faith in his essential goodness and the goodness of being itself, is an example of this idea (1h1m50s).
- Maintaining faith in oneself and the goodness of being, even in the face of suffering and adversity, is crucial for personal growth and transformation (1h2m4s).
- It is possible to make an alliance with truth by assuming that whatever happens to you, if you're living in truth, is the best thing that could possibly happen, and this can be a guiding principle for decision-making (1h3m58s).
- Taking a leap of faith and navigating through uncertainty, rather than relying solely on reason, can be a necessary part of personal growth and transformation (1h3m32s).
- The idea that reason can take you out of a place of darkness and help you find your calling is also possible, but it may require taking risks and facing one's fears (1h3m21s).
- Truth should not be solely determined by its outcome or advantage, as this would make truth the "handmaiden of Advantage," implying that if saying something truthful results in a negative outcome, then it shouldn't have been said. (1h4m25s)
- This perspective is based on making the outcome the primary standard of evaluation, but an alternative standard can be applied where truth is considered the constant and primary value, regardless of the variable outcome. (1h4m46s)
- By prioritizing truth as the constant, it becomes the guiding principle, and the outcome becomes secondary, allowing for a different evaluation of what is considered right or wrong. (1h4m50s)
- This approach seeks to establish a constant or absolute standard, rather than one that is solely based on the outcome or advantage. (1h5m0s)
- The idea of Abraham being fed by naked ladies is an interpolation, but it highlights the importance of integrating the sexual element in life, as it is a powerful motivating force, and its lack can drive young men towards cynicism and instability (1h5m4s).
- Anthropologically, it is known that young men with no access to women create the most unstable social situation, and they will do anything to reverse that situation (1h6m1s).
- The pathway of adventure is the best pathway to romantic attractiveness, and this is supported by the book "A Billion Wicked Thoughts," which studied the patterns of pornographic fantasy and found that women are attracted to protagonists who are powerful, aggressive, and tameable (1h6m21s).
- The main protagonists in female pornographic fantasy are pirates, werewolves, vampires, surgeons, billionaires, and characters like Tony Stark, who embody the "Beauty and the Beast" narrative (1h7m3s).
- To young men who are isolated and struggling to find romantic partners, the advice is to join the "club," stand up straight, take on adventure, find their calling, and abide by their conscience, as this will make them attractive (1h7m29s).
- The correlation between male sexual opportunity and relative masculine status is about 0.6, which is higher than the correlation between intelligence and academic achievement, and this is a fundamental determinant of reproductive success (1h8m26s).
- There is a loop between men attaining social status and reproductive success, where men are motivated to attain social status because it confers upon them reproductive success, both cognitively and biologically (1h8m53s).
- Robert Crumb, an underground cartoonist, was a high school student who was unlikely to get a date and was often met with contempt from females, but he became successful after pursuing his interests in art and music single-mindedly (1h9m7s).
- Crumb's transition to success and becoming a functional person, despite his bitter and resentful past, can be attributed to his heroic adventure path and having a family and children (1h10m2s).
- Women are attracted to men who are of higher status and useful, partly because they are trying to redress the reproductive burden, which is substantial, and the cost of sex for them is an 18-year-old period of dependency with an infant (1h10m40s).
- The heroic adventure comes first, and it's complex because family and society can be a barrier to this adventure, but in good families, they can provide constraints on behavior while also being supportive (1h11m31s).
- Successful people often have parents who are encouraging of their interests and pathway to development, with at least one parent, often both, being supportive, which is a common pattern among 99% of the people interviewed (1h12m12s).
- The struggle within the family can be a catalyst for greatness, and biographies can be seen differently, with the positive and negative aspects of family dynamics contributing to a person's development (1h12m46s).
- A dynamic between positive and negative emotions is crucial for personal development, as seen in the example of a child who is initially disagreeable but eventually learns to regulate their behavior through constraint and guidance (1h12m54s).
- The constraint provided by a parent or authority figure can facilitate a child's cortical maturation by helping them overcome primordial emotional or motivational impulses (1h13m55s).
- The engine of greatness, particularly in males, is often driven by the desire to prove a father figure wrong or gain their acceptance, which can create a tension that motivates personal growth (1h14m36s).
- Having at least one encouraging figure in life, whether a parent or a role model, is essential for getting one's life together and overcoming adversity (1h15m1s).
- This encouraging figure can also be found in books, which can provide a guiding pattern for those who have had fragmented childhoods (1h15m20s).
- The example of Frank McCourt, author of Angela's Ashes, illustrates how someone can overcome a difficult childhood by conceptually dividing their parent into positive and negative elements and amplifying their relationship with the positive aspect (1h15m42s).
- Having a beneficial adversary can be useful for personal growth, as struggle-free progress is not possible, and adversity can provide opportunities for development and self-improvement (1h16m36s).
- A person may be motivated to prove someone in their immediate circle wrong, but this implies that they care about that person's judgment, as they haven't completely written them off (1h16m55s).
- The archetype of a young man trying to gain the approval of his father is a common theme in many biographies, and this approval can come from various sources, such as parents, books, or others (1h17m9s).
- The role of parents in providing approval and encouragement can vary, and in some cases, the roles may be flipped, with the mother providing more encouragement (1h17m29s).
- Having someone who applies high standards and encourages improvement can be a powerful motivator, but this requires a delicate balance in the relationship, often referred to as a "vicious dance" (1h18m27s).
- A father's optimal motivation for his children involves keeping them on the edge, not always rewarding good behavior, and expecting them to do better, which can be challenging but ultimately beneficial (1h18m49s).
- The optimal level of motivation and challenge can vary greatly from person to person, and it's essential to have a relationship with one's children to understand what works best for them (1h19m41s).
- Love is a crucial factor in achieving this optimal balance, as it involves acceptance, encouragement, and also setting high standards and discouraging bad behavior (1h19m58s).
- The level of harshness in providing feedback and encouragement can be difficult to determine, but it's essential to find a balance that works for the individual and the relationship (1h20m12s).
- In a successful relationship, there should be a balance between challenge and peace, which can vary depending on individual temperaments, and some people may thrive in more provocative or challenging relationships (1h20m56s).
- A person's temperament is not clear until it's tested, often in relationships, and people find out various things about themselves in these interactions (1h21m47s).
- Women may test men's temperaments, especially in relationships, to gauge their ability to handle provocations and ensure they won't harm them or their children (1h22m2s).
- A man's relationship with his temper should be one of regulation, as having a temper and being able to control it is part of what makes someone attractive (1h22m38s).
- Friedrich Nietzsche claimed that most morality is actually cowardice, and people often pass off their weakness as morality to avoid confronting their own flaws (1h22m53s).
- Nietzsche criticized a twisted, pseudo-Christian morality that stems from resentment and envy, which can arise from failure in life masked by a false sense of morality (1h23m41s).
- Having a facade of niceness can hide an ocean of resentment, and being too agreeable and conflict-avoidant can lead to bitterness and resentment (1h24m5s).
- It's essential to maintain boundaries and not give in too much to please others, as this can lead to resentment and bitterness (1h24m29s).
- The period between World War I and World War II was a significant testing ground for ideas that helped understand the nature of good and evil (1h25m10s).
- The question arises whether monsters are needed to fight monsters, and if bad men are necessary to fight off greater evils (1h25m58s).
- The answer lies in the concept of "everything in its proper place," where even negative emotions like fear, anger, and pain can be beneficial when in their proper context (1h26m13s).
- A good man needs to be formidable, which means being able to say "no" and mean it, as this can be a powerful force for good (1h26m40s).
- Weak men are not good, they're just weak, and formidable men are admirable, as seen in examples like Douglas Murray, Jocko Willink, and Joe Rogan (1h27m58s).
- The complexity of World War II is highlighted, where Hitler's evil was countered by Stalin's monstrosity, and the mass rape of German women by the Red Army is an example of the full monstrosity that a person can be (1h28m50s).
- In life, one can easily find themselves in a situation where all options are bad, and it's essential to conduct oneself carefully to avoid being in such a position (1h29m14s).
- The West's failure after World War II was not allying with Stalin, but rather not dealing as forthrightly with the catastrophes of Communism as an ideology as they did with Fascism, especially among intellectuals in universities (1h29m41s).
- Many students were unaware of the Soviet atrocities, the death of 6 million people in Ukraine, and the tens of millions of people killed by Communists in the aftermath of the Russian Revolution (1h30m14s).
- Estimates of deaths due to direct or indirect oppression in the Soviet Union range from 20 million to over 100 million, with Solzhenitsyn's upper bound being higher than 20 million (1h30m46s).
- The West's failure to acknowledge the intellectual output suppressed and killed off by Communism is also significant, including the number of intellectuals, artists, and writers put into labor camps (1h31m0s).
- Douglas MacArthur wanted to continue fighting the Soviets after World War II, and his removal from authority prevented this from happening (1h31m18s).
- MacArthur's insistence that Stalin was as big a monster as Hitler or bigger was not wrong, and the valorization of the leftist proclivity is a sin of the West (1h31m37s).
- The threat of communism and Marxism in the United States today is a nuanced topic, and it is disrespectful to the atrocities of the 20th century to call someone like Kamala Harris a communist (1h32m8s).
- The escalation of extreme language used in politics, such as calling someone like Donald Trump a fascist, can lead to similar terminology being used for others, like Kamala Harris (1h32m25s).
- Viewing the current political landscape as a political landscape is the wrong frame of reference, as it is actually a small percentage of dark tetrad personality types who are driving the machinations (1h32m43s).
- Dark tetrad personality types, including manipulative, narcissistic, psychopathic, and sadistic individuals, make up about 3-5% of the population and are generally kept under control by civilized people and stable social interactions (1h32m56s).
- However, their machinations are disinhibited by cost-free social media communication, allowing them to have a disproportionate impact (1h33m30s).
- Psychopaths are overrepresented in the realm of social media and fractious political discourse, as they can use ideas from both the right and the left to further their own interests and gain social status, often hiding behind anonymity and using divisive language to attract followers and elevate their clout (1h33m39s).
- In normal social circumstances, people have evolved mechanisms to keep psychopaths under control, such as remembering past interactions and sharing information with others, but these mechanisms are disrupted online due to anonymity and the amplification of emotional intensity by social media platforms (1h34m36s).
- Psychopaths are able to gain a disproportionate voice online, with some pretending to be compassionate on the left or Christian and Free Speech-oriented on the right, while actually being narcissistic and sadistic (1h35m39s).
- It can be difficult to distinguish between a psychopath and a heterodox truth-seeker, as psychopaths can be charming and persuasive, and even experts in the field can be deceived (1h36m20s).
- Robert Hare, a leading authority on psychopathy, reported that even he was often deceived by psychopaths he interviewed, despite using a clinical checklist to identify them, and that they were able to manipulate him during interviews (1h37m3s).
- Nietzsche's philosophy and its implications [no timestamp available]
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- The idea that one should not engage with psychopaths in conversation is not necessarily true, as being agreeable and seeking to understand the other person can actually reveal their psychopathy through nuanced details and struggles with questions (1h38m5s).
- In one-on-one conversations, it's possible to approach difficult individuals, such as psychopaths, by assuming they're playing a straight game and watching for any manipulative maneuvers, which can be noted and addressed if they occur (1h39m3s).
- The dynamic of a one-on-one conversation changes when it's recorded and listened to by a large audience, as the viewer's intelligence can be trusted to detect psychopathy and manipulative behavior (1h39m36s).
- Long-form interviews are particularly effective in revealing a person's true nature, as it's difficult to maintain a manipulative stance for an extended period, and the interviewee may become tired, irritable, and start making mistakes (1h40m22s).
- The intelligence of the distributed crowd can be trusted to detect manipulative behavior and falsehoods, as everyone brings a different set of "falsehood detectors" to the table, and aggregating these perspectives can lead to accurate assessments (1h41m16s).
- Censorship of fringe ideologies, such as Nazi ideology, can often have the opposite effect, giving them power and indicating that they're being taken seriously (1h41m36s).
- The idea that those in power do not want the truth to be heard can fuel paranoia and motivate paranoid individuals, leading to a cycle of distrust and misbehavior (1h41m51s).
- Paranoia can spiral out of control when paranoid people are persecuted due to their suspicious nature, causing them to become more distrustful and eventually misbehave (1h42m2s).
- The concept of free expression on social media platforms, such as Twitter X, can be beneficial, but it also allows for the spread of pathology and the influence of psychopaths (1h42m31s).
- A small minority of bad actors can have a disproportionate influence on social media, and separating anonymous accounts from verified accounts could help mitigate this issue (1h43m3s).
- Anonymous individuals are more likely to behave badly online, and separating them from verified accounts could help to reduce the spread of harmful content (1h43m10s).
- The danger to culture from unregulated social media is substantial, and the lack of effective policing has allowed psychopathic manipulators to have free rein (1h43m38s).
- A significant portion of internet traffic is dedicated to pornography and outright criminal activity, with a surrounding penumbra of psychopathic and narcissistic behavior (1h43m56s).
- The amplification of communication by social networks has created a fundamental problem of the age, making society vulnerable to psychopaths on both the left and the right (1h44m27s).
- Bots can behave similarly to psychopaths, maximizing their function without regard for other consequences, and can contribute to the spread of negative emotions and short-term attention (1h44m37s).
- Algorithms that maximize for short-term attention can create a worst-case scenario where negative emotions garner more attention, leading to a cycle of negativity and short-term gratification (1h45m3s).
- It is estimated that 3 to 5% of the global population are psychopaths, but the number of people exhibiting psychopathic tendencies online may be higher due to the anonymity of the internet and the appeal of taking others down, which can be a source of pleasure (1h45m44s).
- The desire to take others down can be attributed to a sadistic impulse, which is a capacity that all humans possess to some degree, and young people may be more prone to this behavior due to a lack of understanding of its implications on their own development (1h46m30s).
- Participating in taking others down can have a cost on one's own development as a human being, leading to a more cynical and isolated outlook on life, but many young people who engage in this behavior can be socialized out of it as they mature (1h46m57s).
- Research has shown that people tend to become more agreeable and conscientious as they mature, and that there is an innate tilt towards pleasure in dominant striving behavior, which can be associated with psychopathic tendencies (1h48m0s).
- Many people who exhibit psychopathic tendencies can be socialized out of it, and even repeat criminal types tend to desist from their behavior in their late 20s, suggesting that most people are salvageable, but it requires a willingness to change and a significant investment of resources (1h48m23s).
- A small percentage of people, estimated to be around 1%, are responsible for a disproportionate amount of crimes, and these individuals often have stable patterns of offending that emerge at a young age and continue into adulthood, but may stop if kept in prison until their late 20s (1h48m32s).
- Not everyone may be salvageable, as it requires a desire to change and a significant investment of resources, and the farther down the "rabbit hole" someone has gone, the more difficult it may be to change (1h49m16s).
- A point is reached where an individual's circumstances become so dire that the probability of them being able to recover and receive the necessary resources to improve their situation becomes zero, making it very difficult for others to be around them (1h49m32s).
- Historically, it has been observed that leaders of movements are often psychopaths, while their followers are often lost individuals who have become deeply invested in the movement's ideology (1h49m51s).
- The Nazi movement in Germany is cited as an example, where not everyone who participated in the movement was brought to justice, and similar situations have occurred in Japan and South Africa (1h50m9s).
- The biblical stories, such as those of the Patriarchs, feature individuals who were initially flawed but were able to change and become better people, such as Jacob, who was a liar, thief, and coward but eventually turned his life around (1h50m36s).
- It is cautioned that one should be careful not to idolize or worship leaders without critically evaluating their character, as it is not always clear who is good and who is evil (1h51m7s).
- Contending with the problem of evil has been a main motivation for study, starting at a young age of 13 or 14, and it took around 30 years to flesh out the alternative to evil (1h51m16s).
- Understanding evil is less complicated than formulating a solution to its opposite, which is good, and good can be described as the opposite of evil, such as being as far from being an Auschwitz camp guard as possible (1h52m23s).
- The antithesis of evil is play, which was a concept that took a long time to figure out, and studying the worst behaviors in books, clinical practice, and observations of people was a dark experience (1h52m46s).
- Recently, being very ill and in tremendous pain for 3 years was a challenging experience, but the strength of relationships, particularly with family and friends, was a saving grace (1h53m16s).
- Having connections with others, especially during difficult times, is essential, and it's necessary to bear the burdens of the world on one's own shoulders, but not alone (1h54m2s).
- Welcoming the adversity of life as a redemptive challenge is a task that may be beyond the ability of the typical person, but having social, familial, and metaphysical support can make a difference (1h54m23s).
- The idea that the more darkness one is willing to encounter voluntarily, the more likely it is that a higher power or the best parts of oneself will be present, is a concept found in the Old and New Testament (1h54m51s).
- Contending with difficult challenges can manifest the best parts of oneself, which can be thought of as a kind of metaphysical reality that exists in potential (1h55m20s).
- The concept of the self is deeply connected to the idea of God, and when God was dispensed with, people found the same thing deep within their instinctive realm, which is a fundamental reality (1h55m38s).
- The story of Moses encountering the burning bush is an example of this, where Moses is drawn to the spirit of being itself, which is the tree of life, and this encounter transforms his identity and leads him to become a leader who can speak truth to power (1h56m22s).
- The burning bush represents life exaggerated, as everything that's alive is "on fire," and it symbolizes the spirit of being and becoming that calls to Moses and tracks him off the beaten track (1h56m54s).
- Moses' decision to investigate the burning bush is a symbolic representation of going off the beaten track to explore and understand the deeper meaning of life, which ultimately leads to identity transformation (1h57m11s).
- The spirit of being and becoming is what speaks to Moses, telling him that it is what it is, what it will be, and what was becoming, all at the same time, and this encounter transforms Moses' identity and gives him the power to speak truth to power (1h57m50s).
- The idea that hardship is the catalyst for growth and challenge is a fundamental concept, and voluntarily undertaking hardship is crucial for personal growth and transformation (1h58m55s).
- The example of therapy is used to illustrate this point, where a person who is afraid of elevators can overcome their fear by voluntarily moving towards the elevator, but not if they are forced or tricked into it (1h59m6s).
- The concept of voluntarily undertaking hardship is essential for personal growth, and it is only through this process that people can become braver and overcome their fears (1h59m29s).
- Friedrich Nietzsche, despite being one of the greatest minds in human history, suffered from various health issues, including migraines, eyesight problems, digestive issues, depression, and suicidal thoughts, raising the question of whether these problems were a feature or a bug of his existence (1h59m39s).
- The story of Job in the Bible presents a similar scenario, where Job, a good man, is allowed by God to be tested by Satan, resulting in a series of catastrophes, but Job's response is to refuse to despair and maintain his faith, demonstrating an expression of voluntary free will (2h0m0s).
- Job's story is a classic example of a descent and ascent narrative, where he ultimately regains everything he lost and more, suggesting that optimizing one's attitude in the face of adversity can lead to a reversal of fortunes (2h0m50s).
- A similar phenomenon can be observed in real-life situations, where individuals who have faced malicious attacks or adversity have been able to turn their fortunes around by adopting a positive attitude and making the right choices (2h1m48s).
- The idea of transforming involuntary hardship into voluntary hardship by adopting a "bring it on" attitude can be seen as a way of taking control of one's circumstances and improving one's chances of success (2h2m19s).
- While it is not possible to transcend all catastrophes with the right attitude, there is always an element of choice in dire situations, and making the right choices can improve one's chances of success (2h2m49s).
- The resurrection story in Christianity proclaims that even in the darkest circumstances, the ultimate victory is that of good, suggesting that maintaining a positive attitude and making the right choices can lead to a triumphant outcome (2h3m14s).
Pain and gratitude (2h3m32s)
- The person experienced a period of severe physical and psychological pain that lasted for about three years, with every minute being worse than any previous experience in their life (2h3m32s).
- During this time, they would walk 10 to 12 miles a day, rain or shine, and their pain levels would decrease throughout the day but reset to extreme levels after sleep (2h4m4s).
- Sleep became an enemy, making it difficult to maintain hope, and the person relied on their family to carry them through this period (2h5m14s).
- The experience taught the person gratitude for the people around them, particularly their family, and the importance of human connection in overcoming adversity (2h5m52s).
- The person's wife, Tammy, was diagnosed with a rare form of cancer but was able to find hope and recover due to the realization of the depth of love from their son (2h6m10s).
- The experience highlighted the value of love and connection in giving life meaning and the importance of appreciating ordinary moments and relationships (2h6m45s).
- After recovering, the person developed a greater appreciation for ordinary life and was able to find joy in simple moments, such as standing in a pharmacy without being in pain (2h7m20s).
- Appreciating the mundane moments in life can help individuals gain a greater ability to find meaning and positivity, even in difficult situations (2h7m51s).
- Friedrich Nietzsche's work often explores the tension between appreciating the miracle of the mundane and fearing the tyranny of the mediocre (2h8m36s).
- The idea that some people are inherently better than others can be a dangerous concept, as it can lead to resentment and mediocrity (2h9m0s).
- The story of Cain and Abel illustrates that people are not inherently mediocre, but rather, they may choose not to do their best (2h9m10s).
- Intelligence and morality are not correlated, and being smart does not necessarily make someone a better person (2h11m8s).
- People with various abilities and talents can strive towards moral goodness, regardless of their level of attainment (2h10m51s).
- The metaphysical assumption that everyone is made in the image of God implies that all individuals have inherent worth, regardless of their perceived or actual utility (2h11m32s).
- Societies that accept the notion of inherent worth as a fundamental principle tend to be more desirable places to live (2h12m0s).
- Treating people with the assumption of radical equality of worth, despite individual variance in ability, can lead to better interactions, as everyone wants to be treated that way (2h12m27s).
- A developmental sequence for trust can be: naive and trusting, hurt and cynical, cynical and trusting, and finally, courageous trust, which is a re-instantiation of initial trust mixed with wisdom (2h12m57s).
- Courageous trust involves putting oneself out there, but not being a fool, and is a better approach to life than being cynical and safe or hopeful and vulnerable to hurt (2h13m8s).
- Vulnerability to hurt is an inevitable part of life, and one cannot dispense with it, as staking one's life on security is not a viable option (2h13m43s).
- When betrayed, the best approach is to grieve, look elsewhere, try to forgive, and help the person who betrayed, if possible, and if not, wash one's hands of it and move on to the next adventure (2h14m5s).
- To find what is true, one must practice orienting their life upward as completely as possible, allowing them to distinguish between truth and falsehood, and this practice is essential for becoming serious about seeking truth (2h14m51s).
- The root cause of evil is not economic or sociological, but rather spiritual and psychological, and it is the individual's responsibility to aim upward and tell the truth to combat this evil (2h15m38s).
- One's perceptions are shaped by their goals and orientation, and the world divides into obstacles and things that move them forward, depending on their aim (2h16m7s).
- If one's aim is untrue, they will not be able to tell the difference between truth and falsehood, and it is essential to continually course-correct and aim towards the ultimate truth (2h16m24s).
- The process of seeking truth involves crossing the line and exploring outside the boundaries of what is considered acceptable, but this must be done in a spirit of play and exploration (2h16m45s).
- In lectures, the goal is to be on the edge, exploring new ideas and figuring things out, and the audience responds to this sense of exploration and risk-taking (2h17m7s).
- The act of lecturing is a high-wire act, where one can fail, but the audience is engaged when they sense that the speaker is arguing with themselves and exploring new ideas (2h17m22s).
- The internet can be a challenging platform for this type of exploration, as deviations and explorations outside the boundaries of what is considered acceptable can be punished (2h17m58s).
- Protecting free speech is crucial, as it allows well-meaning people to express themselves even if they might be wrong, and it also protects the right of those who aren't well-meaning to be wrong, as people aren't always well-meaning themselves (2h18m20s).
- The alternative to protecting free speech would be insisting that people only say what is 100% right all the time, which is unrealistic and could lead to a totalitarian state where people are afraid to express themselves (2h18m43s).
- Reducing a person to a particular statement, especially their worst statement, is unfair and can discourage people from engaging in radical thought experiments and open discussions (2h18m51s).
- Totalitarian states often have one psychopath in power, but in the case of online platforms, there may be multiple psychopaths roaming the landscape, and everyone else is complicit in their silence (2h19m23s).
- Studying the pathology of psychopaths online can be emotionally draining, but it's necessary for understanding the current moment and making lectures and podcasts relevant and up-to-date (2h19m43s).
- There's a price to pay for being exposed to the darkness online, as it can make one more cynical, but having counterbalancing positive relationships and activities can help mitigate this effect (2h20m26s).
- Maintaining a positive orientation is a moral obligation, especially for those with a public platform, as it helps to ensure a better future and provides a sense of direction and purpose (2h21m20s).
- The future is full of contradictory possibilities, and the best way to ensure a positive outcome is to maintain faith that good will prevail, which requires a form of moral commitment beyond naive optimism (2h21m45s).
- A conversation is taking place, and the participants appreciate each other's work, with one acknowledging the other's ability to illuminate dark corners and bring people upward (2h22m12s).
- The conversation is part of a podcast, and the host is doing a decent job, with the podcast being a remarkable thing (2h22m14s).
- The conversation is with Jordan Peterson, and the podcast is supported by sponsors listed in the description (2h22m29s).
- Friedrich Nietzsche is quoted, expressing his desire to learn more, see the beauty in necessary things, and make things beautiful (2h22m38s).