Liderlik: Yeni Nesil Öğrenme ve Gelişim | Hakan Tekcandan | TEDxBilkent U
13 Sep 2024 (6 days ago)
Adaptability and Flexibility in the Business World
- Tekcandan believes that one of the biggest mistakes people make in the business world is having rigid boundaries and expectations, using the analogy of a square versus a circle.
- Tekcandan learned to embrace a more flexible and adaptable approach, symbolized by a circle or any shape without sharp corners, to navigate the challenges of work and leadership.
Importance of "Correct Distance" and Self-Importance
- It is important to understand the concept of "correct distance" in both personal and professional life, similar to the Japanese concept of "ma" which refers to a safe distance between two people.
- Individuals should strive to be the center of their own lives, recognizing their own importance and value, especially when pursuing entrepreneurial endeavors.
Maintaining Balance and Recognizing Imbalance
- Maintaining a balance in life is crucial, as an imbalance can lead to negative consequences.
- If you are unable to receive something from someone or give something to them, you should distance yourself from them.
Avoiding the "Know-It-All" Mentality
- Senior managers often make the mistake of believing they know everything, which prevents their staff from learning from their mistakes.
The Importance of Networking and Building Relationships
- Selçuk, a mentor, believed that a good person, a good worker, and a good salesperson are all individuals who can find free food and drinks wherever they go.
- Networking is crucial for success, as it provides guidance and support that is otherwise difficult to obtain.
- People should focus on connecting with the right individuals across different companies and industries to build a strong network.
The Wise Man and the Butterfly Paradox
- A story is told about a "wise man" who is said to know everything. Two children attempt to come up with a question he cannot answer.
- One child plans to ask if the butterfly in his hand is alive or dead. If the wise man says "dead" he will open his hand to let the butterfly fly away. If the wise man says "alive" he will crush the butterfly in his hand.
- When the child asks the question, the wise man responds by saying "That is in your hand".