algıYıalgılaDım | Onur Fıstıkoğlu | TEDxYouth@ALKEVHS

Introduction and Personal Background

• The excitement of giving a first-time talk is felt, and the hope is to make the most of the 18-minute time frame to discuss the topic of perception (4s).
• Perception is a fascinating topic, and everyone interprets and perceives things differently, making their own conclusions based on the information they receive (16s).
• The personal educational background is shared, which was not very successful, including being expelled from school three months before the ÖSS exam, but ultimately returning to school after the mother's efforts (42s).
• The current state is better, and the goal is to share the experience and insights about perception, hoping not to be a bad example (51s).

Perception and its Importance

• The question is raised whether perception is the same for everyone and whether it is a standard concept, with the example of the vase and two faces image, where people can see it differently (1m9s).
• The importance of perception is highlighted, and the question is asked what it means to be successful, whether it is about achieving great things, making a lot of money, or being seen as superior (1m36s).
• The conclusion is that perception is about living a happy and fulfilling life, given the short time we have, and that being liked and appreciated by others is a crucial aspect (1m46s).
• The experience of being an outcast in school but still being liked by classmates is shared, leading to the realization that being liked by others is essential (2m6s).
• The importance of education is acknowledged, but it is also emphasized that relationships with people are vital, and perception plays a significant role in these interactions (2m35s).

Professional Background and Perception of Beauty

• The professional background in the medical aesthetics field is shared, including working with non-surgical beauty treatments like Botox and fillers for around 15-16 years (3m4s).
• People from different regions and cultures can be perceived as beautiful, such as those from Central Africa, Thailand, and England, but the perception of beauty varies depending on the region and culture one is from (3m17s).
• The perception of beauty and happiness can be influenced by one's own cultural background and environment, and people may be happier and more beautiful in their own habitat (3m48s).
• The perception of beauty can also be subjective and influenced by personal preferences, as some people may find certain individuals more beautiful or attractive than others (4m12s).

Examples of Success and Varying Perceptions

• Uğur Şahin, a Turkish scientist, is one of the most well-known Turks in the world, having co-developed the COVID-19 vaccine (5m12s).
• Mahatma Gandhi, an Indian independence activist, traveled from India to England in 1900 to study law, which was an unusual pursuit at the time (5m30s).
• The perception of success can also vary, and individuals can be successful in their own fields, such as Uğur Şahin in science, Mahatma Gandhi in politics, and a popular TikToker in social media (5m59s).
• The three individuals mentioned are successful in their own ways, but their paths to success were different, and success can be measured in various ways, such as wealth, fame, or achievement (6m30s).

Education and its Role

• The importance of education is often emphasized, but the speaker notes that they took 9 years to complete their university education, which is not necessarily a measure of success (6m44s).
• The current situation in Istanbul with 3 clinics might be the result of studying for 3 more years at university, expanding social circles, and getting to know various people, which ultimately helped in the current profession (6m54s).
• The university years were used to increase social connections and relationships, which are now being applied to the current job, but it's not recommended to stay in university for too long (7m4s).

Defining "Algı" (Perception) and Personal Happiness

• The concept of "algı" (perception) refers to the path one takes to achieve happiness, and it's not about wanting a lot of money or people's admiration (7m23s).
• The goal is to find something that brings personal happiness and fulfillment, without being influenced by external factors or people's opinions (7m31s).
• There's no need to take someone as a role model, as individuals should focus on their own path and aspirations (7m53s).

Educational Journey and Finding One's Path

• The educational journey, including primary, middle, and high school, was successful, but it's just one part of the overall path (8m10s).
• Dropping out of school was never considered, as education is seen as a bridge to achieving one's goals, regardless of the speed of progress (8m22s).
• The importance lies in reaching the end of the bridge and finding the desired path, which may involve creating a personal roadmap, especially during high school years (8m32s).
• The concept of "algı" can be understood as finding one's priorities, whether it's money, career, or personal relationships, and it's essential to determine this early on (8m37s).
• The educational journey, which lasted 9 years, including 6 years of university and 3 years of additional studies, was long, but the current outcome is satisfying (8m59s).

Personal Fulfillment and Career Satisfaction

• Despite not having a lot of money or being widely admired, personal happiness is achieved through doing a job that is truly enjoyed (9m25s).
• The experience of studying for 9 years, including taking the TUS (Medical Specialization Examination) twice, serves as a personal example, whether good or bad (9m41s).

Life-Changing Experiences and Decisions

• The decision to take a 45-day trip to Thailand in 2006 turned into a 2-year stay, where valuable experiences and aesthetic applications were gained (10m12s).
• The initial plan was to study for an exam, but the idea of locking oneself in a room for a year at the age of 25 seemed pointless, and instead, the focus shifted to other pursuits (10m33s).
• After completing medical school, a mandatory service in a rural area, known as "Doğu hizmeti" or "East service," was required to become a doctor in the country, which was fulfilled by working in Mardin Dargeçit for 2 years (11m22s).
• The decision to resign from the mandatory service was made, which ultimately led to new opportunities and a broader vision (11m43s).

Choosing One's Path and Priorities

• The importance of choosing one's own path and not being influenced by others' expectations or societal pressures is emphasized, as everyone's perception and priorities are different (13m25s).
• The goal is not to seek validation or admiration from others but to genuinely help people and build meaningful relationships, which brings personal fulfillment (13m3s).

Message of Perseverance and Self-Belief

• A message from Instagram's DM inbox is shared, stating that even the worst university student can achieve success and work in prestigious clinics, highlighting the importance of perseverance and self-belief (12m33s).
• The concept of being influenced is not relevant, as one's inner thoughts guide their path, and time has no significance, as seen in the example of completing two universities in 9 years (13m33s).
• The outcome of this journey is the satisfaction of having a good job among peers who graduated from the same university, which brings immense joy and fulfillment (13m46s).

The Importance of Perspective and Not Comparing Oneself to Others

• This satisfaction stems from having a different perspective, not from being ambitious, and it's essential to note that being excellent in school does not guarantee a lifetime of success (14m1s).
• However, it's also important not to be too bad in school, as it's possible to excel at any moment, and some people can maintain excellence throughout their lives, achieving happiness and success in various areas (14m20s).
• These individuals may have excellent language skills, be good at sports, have a lot of money, and come from a good family, but it's crucial to choose one's own perspective and not compare oneself to others (14m37s).

Finding the Right Direction and Doing What One Loves

• The key takeaway is that one's perspective can be very different, and it's essential to find the right direction, which is not about making a lot of money, but about doing what one loves (14m59s).
• This idea may seem cliché, but it's essential to wait for the right moment and do what brings joy, as this is the key to happiness and fulfillment (15m20s).
• The speaker emphasizes that this does not mean not going to school, but rather finding the right balance and doing what one loves, which is what they are currently doing and enjoying (15m23s).

Concluding Remarks and Importance of Spiritual Perspective

• The speaker concludes by highlighting the difference between physical and spiritual perspectives, and hopes that the audience has understood the message about the importance of spiritual perspective (16m19s).
• This talk is the speaker's first experience with a TEDx event, and they hope that their story can provide valuable insights and inspiration to the young audience (16m31s).

High School Experience and Importance of Schools

• The individual attended Üsküdar FÜSKÜDAR FEN Lisesi, a school their family could afford due to their good financial situation, despite not being a standard student, they managed to achieve a certain level and were registered there based on their points (17m18s).
• At school, the individual was the only student who got into a university outside of their city, and they were also the only student who got into the medical school (17m55s).
• The individual believes that schools are very important, and without them, nothing would be possible, and they also think that the biggest feature of schools is that they increase one's vision (18m47s).

Impact of the Internet and Advice for Aspiring Doctors

• The individual thinks that the internet has made it easier for people to access information, and they mention that even in the past, when they were doing their compulsory service, people would come to them with questions about medical issues, but now, with the internet, people can easily access that information (19m9s).
• The individual advises those who want to study medicine to study in Turkey and then specialize in Germany, as they believe that the Turkish University Entrance Examination (TUS) is a pointless exam, and Germany does not have such an exam (19m56s).
• The individual invites young people to follow them on Instagram, where they will share information about medicine, and they also invite them to meet up for a cup of coffee or tea (19m45s).